I came up with a saying decades ago that has guided my life. It’s this: “You can’t choose what to look at, but you can choose how to look at it.” The main building block to this realization was master negotiator Robert Dawson’s audio series on negotiation tactics, where he gave the example of holding … [Read more…]
I’m so affected by racists throwing Black marriage statistics at me in my early life that today I notice nearly every Black father I see walking down the street with his child. I’ve even contemplated making a website called “Return of the Black Father,” where people can submit anonymous pictures of Black men fathering. Seeing … [Read more…]
Embed from Getty Images The Cardinal Rule of Male/Female relations Brett Kavanaugh finds his Supreme Court nomination in jeopardy because he allegedly broke what I consider the Cardinal Rule of male/female relations; that rules is; man does the mating dance, woman decides. This may sound overly simplistic but it is this very rule that has … [Read more…]